By the time the third date was about to end her only concern had been vanquished. She may have been influenced by the kind of real kissing that one dreams of but answered my question convincingly. "Is there chemistry now?" I said. "yes there is" she said. That moment confirmed that this was the real deal and I was ready to commit.
I guess proving there is chemistry,isn't. She began the next morn.to hint that it's not going to work and became cold. I've heard the "fact of life" rules. If that is what she wants it's tough luck. I really hate cop outs. Tell me what you think.This is the message she sent last night...

"Listen, you're very attractive and super fun to be with. I am -- at the same time -- attracted to you and not attracted to you. Something major is missing, for me, and it's the chemistry, I tried to tell you that. I've felt chemistry before, I know exactly what it feels like and I desperately want to find it again. It's a feeling like no other and it's unmistakable -- euphoria!!! Like meeting someone that you know, absolutely know, you've known and loved with all your heart in another lifetime -- a connection, a bond, a love so strong. It's so hard to explain -- a physical chemical reaction of the body.

I do like you a lot, you have everything I'm looking for except the chemistry, which is really the most important thing for me. I don't want to short-change either you or me, that's why this way is best.
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Is she confused, crazy, self absorbed or being reasonable. I need to change her mind...again! I don't want to lose her but..