Hi ~ I find her action inappropriate. She is relying on your husband MUCH too much.
In order to get your husband to understand how you feel, I think I'd ask him to turn the situation around -- what if it was YOU having this kind of relationship with another man?? Would HE mind? Wouldn't it bother him that you were spending so much time with him? I think it would -- and he would ask you to knock it off!!
Remind him that you're still vulnerable in your recovery -- and that you're not trying to "make" trouble, but it just seems out of line to you. I would raise cain if it were my husband!!!
I wish you the best of luck -- I hope your recovery from depression keeps going well. God bless & please take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee
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