I have written a ton of posts regarding the relationship with my boyfriend so I'm not going to rehash everything here, but to suffice it to say it has been a very rocky road.

I'm not very good at ending things, but it appears to me that is the route I should go and all my friends and family are suggesting that's what I should do and that there is no future in the relationship.

I'm to the point that I actually feel numb about the whole relationship. It's bothering me that I'm keeping my feelings to myself and I feel a bit guilty, but I haven't had success in sharing any of my feelings with him in the past. He always says I blow things out of proportion, it's not true, etc. I even wrote him a letter about things and that was not successful. He just got mad and never brought it up again.

Any words of wisdom or advice on how to know it's over and how to end it? He has an 8 year old daughter and I have a 7 year old son involved as well so it makes it a bit more difficult.