Every one of us is free to define their situation in whatever form they believe is most accurate and acceptable. If they don't want to think of themselves as "mentally ill," I think that's fine and entirely up to them. As for my being in the mental health professionals social group, I consider that as a great compliment but not terribly deserved on my part. I worked for many years as a family mediator with husbands and wives and families who were having serious problems. On that basis (if I remember correctly) I was actually invited to join that social group. Again, if I remember correctly, I didn't ask to join the group. Do I see myself as one who supports others in a professional way? Well, yes, I guess I do. But I'm afraid I'm much, much more of a patient than a professional.

Absolutely agreed. But it could be even more agreed if we get past self-acceptance and make serious inroads on how those on the outside see us. I apologize if you're offended by "leprosy" or "freaks." But I honestly do feel that both of those words don't overstate the case when it comes to how people with head problems are viewed by others, even if we actually mount up to one quarter of the population over a lifetime.

Yes. Mutual support. Yes. We are all human. No question at all. But the attitudes of others who aren't otherwise affected by our situation is, to me, quite important and something that should be worked on and not ignored. Take care!