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Hi ~ I agee with Perna -- it sounds like you're in this relationship alone! He's not contributing much to it -- obviously he's not working on it if he won't even talk! If you stay, all you'll get is more of the same, and that's not fair to you or your child.
And since you're "numb" about it, the "love' must have died along with the relationship. You deserve to have someone who puts as much into this as you do .
Explain to your child that sometimes things just don't go the way we want them to, but "so and so" is still a good person. You don't want to mean-mouth this guy to your child. Just tell him that you both decided not to stay together. Children are very resilient -- so your son should be okay.
I wish you the very best. Please keep us posted on how you're doing. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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