OK. Email from him. What does this mean?

"I am looking at it from a divorced persons point of view. After just getting out of a relationship I think most people would not want to jump right into another one. I know your widowed last year and you didn’t have a choice about that. So I guess my theory doesn’t pertain to you.

I was asking in a round about way, are you looking for an exclusive relationship or are you looking to date around. You said you were looking for a long term relationship and so am I. So I think we’re a good match that way and other ways also.

But if you thought it was to soon for you to get in a long term relationship I would want to know up front and I’d understand.

Don’t get me wrong I’m not trying to lock you into a commitment. I would never want to do that. Just making sure we are going down the same path. I think we are

I have trouble expressing myself sometimes"

He wants a long term thing but not a commitment? What does that mean??????????????????????

ARGGGHHH!!!!!!!!!!