Thank you ladies. The more I think about her motives the less likely she has any, except to cover her own insecurities before I notice. Too late honey. I noticed .
The first thing she said after "the turn" in response to my "wtf happened to you" question, was " I'm just worried about all this stuff, I'm a mess, it's not you". So is she trying to save me from the horrible person she really is? Then why become that person and make sure it's done? I don't get that logic. Be as mean and evil as you can so that he will hate your guts and go away quickly? My problem is that I have self esteem. Anyone on the street knows that if you mess with someone like that there's going to be repercussions. Payback should be a ***** for her too. ha ha
PS: Sorry for being so cynical. Thanks for being there people.