Thanks for this thread. I think I may be asexual too, but not sure what the difference is between asexual and sexual aversion as a mental condition, and also my boyfriend says I used to want sex. I neve rhave spontaneous sexual fantasies and to my knowledge the few tiems I did want intimacy, it's been kind of an indifferent attitude, like "Let's try this". I am not sure hwat having a crush on someonemeans, so I don't even know whether I'm romantically attracted to anyone, but I do have a boyfriend and find him very special. So could this be asexual, or is this just repression or what? Sorry if I hijack the OP's thread.