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Originally Posted by lad007
My daughter got a divorce from a husband that is controlling also. However I do maintain a relationship with my ex son in law. I have a grandson and I think it is in his best interest that I do so, so we can keep the communication open.
Your Mum did ask you if you minded, so if you do mind, you should say so. She probably thinks you don't mind, and I'm sure if she knew, she wouldn't be so friendly towards him. So as it is really bothering you, tell her.
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Thanks for sharing your perspective - yes mum did ask me - kind of gets her off the hook though doesn't it? She knows how hurt I have been by everything that has happened and by asking me if I minded she can carry on guilt free - maybe I am the one at fault here. There are a lot of layers beneath this which I guess is why I find it so difficult to accept.
Is your daughter comfortable with you meeting up for coffee with your ex son-in-law?