i know this thread should probably die if the OP is no longer responding, but i want to offer an opposite view for consideration.

personally, i hope she got a divorce, or separated with the child(ren) because it sounds like her and her husbands sexual needs do not align and his abuse (screaming if the child is home, screaming at all...) is not a healthy reality for anyone.

there are women, possibly men (don't know, i'm not one) who prefer the kind of treatment(?) the OP and others complain about.

what i mean to say is i can get horribly depressed if my mate, say, passes by me as i wash dishes and doesn't at least squeeze my butt. i feel sad every time he looks at me with a bored expression and doesn't simply wish to ravage me instead of talk about business, money, my personal fears, or anything he doesn't find interesting or stimulating--cause chances are, i don't either. life is short and there's a lot i don't care about-like my personal fears, problems, etc. work, play, rest--boring conversations or understimulated people are a nightmare in my world. want something i have? wanna play? theorize about something interesting? let me know, if not, ***** needs to get done. living in a physical realm is about what we SO DESIRE, and that's different for everyone. my boredom is my destruction, you're boredom is my fury. restless? horny? same thing for me.

if i was on the floor, say, vacuuming under the couch in a compromising position and my master (i'm a submissive slave) stumbled upon me i would be beyond delighted if he was overcome with desire and needed to have anything sexual (hopefully that he wanted. in fact, my heart sinks a little bit each time he walks away from me and i know he would be so much more relaxed with his work and stressload with some sexual attention.

i've never been identified as a nympho, though i do have typical (i think) adult reactions to having been exposed to sexual energy (additional thanks gemini curiosity) before preschool. if my master wanted to fondle me, say, now-as i write, work, think, wash dishes, cook dinner-i welcome the distraction from what is otherwise a very dull existence in my eyes. without sexual energy, life is boring and generally unproductive (i'm a creator, let's say it's my go-juice).

so there's the other side, though NO ONE has the right to do what makes you feel uncomfortable unless that is what you CHOOSE to have a part of your living existence. we are here, we are free, and unless we relinquish our power to someone else they have no right (and by some perspectives no real ability) to take it from us. my body belongs to my master because that is what i CHOOSE to be a part of my life, i do not make decisions for others and i do not condone a force that is unwanted.

love the (wo)man you choose to be, find love everywhere