Hello I've been with my partner for 6 years, we have split up 3 times in that time but even though we were apart we continually slept together our sexlife wasn't the problem for our splits it was the fact that my partner had commitment issues. The whole time we were together before our last split not once did he tell me that he loved me. Last year while we were apart he contacted me and begged me back he stated that he loved me and couldnt see his life without me. He moved to Sydney for work while I stayed in Brisbane, 4 months ago I decided to pack everything up and move to Sydney to be with him. We have lived together for 4 months now and our sexlife was good at the start 3-4 times a week then it dropped to once a week and now I'm lucky to get it at all. He doesnt show me any attention and treats me more like a room mate then a lover when I ask him how he feels about me he tells me he loves me and he doesnt want to lose me. I dont know if I should believe him. I cry myself to sleep everynight I love him so much and I dont want to lose him again. What can I do to bring the romance back into our relationship and get him to want me again?