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Sep 18, 2011, 11:16 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ! I think first I would find out if he's HEALTHY. He could use a physical right now -- see if he's open to the idea. Let him know that you're just concerned about him and want to make sure he's ok.
If his health is ok, why not try "romancing" him. Have supper with candlelight -- get a nice bottle of wine & serve it. Later, put on your prettiest negligee & strut your stuff. LOL  If you've tried all that, I would suggest couples counseling. MANY people go for counseling for just the problem you describe. If he loves you, he'll go. There must be a reason for this severe slow-down of intimacy. Try to talk with him -- see if you can't improve the communication between you.
I wish you the very best -- Please keep us posted. Hugs, Lee
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