(((open eyes))) Please take the initiative and call him tomorrow asking for the exact date, time and location of the deposition. Don't wait for him to call. Despite what others have said, he does not sound like a good attorney to me. Not at all - his behavior is very alcoholic-like. I have worked in the legal field for many years. It sounds to me like others do not want the case because they don't want to clean up his mess or deal with his abuse (as you are doing). I suggest you tell the attorney that you will stop paying his bills unless he treats you professionally. Regardless of his reply, I strongly recommend that you call the local bar association and get another attorney - fast. Having a competant, professional attorney represent you will help your mental state of mind a lot. Good luck to you!