i'm sorry i don't have any counsoling words. but about missing even dysfunctional people.

i just got done talking to a friend about her breakup. take love and put it aside and all the other emotions. theres still a person standing there. someone who you have spent a good chunk of your life with. you ought to be crazy not to miss that. (unless it was bad from the get)
but, you can't just tell your brain okk this person i'm used to being around day in day out is just going to up and dissapear from my life and your not aloud to have any emotions about it.
people in general are not bad, it's hteir actions they choose to follow which can be bad.
it's fun rediscovering yourself again, being with someone for so long you can become so dependent on that person being there weather its good or bad at least their there.

whenever anyone gets into relationships a little pieces of you get left behind because of all the compromises you make because you want the relationship to work and then reely on them to complete the parts that you left behind. now is the time to find those pieces you left and be YOU again.

am i being cryptic i know it's hard to follow me at times, it's bad people skills.