Oh Lynn I am so sorry you have to go though this. You said it....Change is scary! Both of you will have an adjustment period. I think him giving you the cold shoulder last night is his way of detaching himself from you, it will be alright in the end. You are a good person and he knows that. I just hope you both will not let the material stuff get in the way to much, That is what is hard, remember its just STUFF! I know your girls will do good once it is all said and done, They are smart like their mother! You know what we say around here just keep posting everything will be fine! P.S. I am still friends with my x. We were married 13yrs.