I got numerous therapy spankings. I think a steady dose is damaging and I think it's going to take a long time to recover from this. I think there are a few Ts out there who are acting out their stuff. Best to know this early on, and I'm going to ask some example kinds of questions when I interview for my next T. I will be explicit about this stuff and not rely on general impressions that I have. That's where I went wrong.
Sorry to hijack! But confrontations are okay...in small doses.