my friend withdraws whenever she has a problem
I offer to help/come over etc but she says she wants to be on her own
I get very disappointed as we wont be meeting
and I worry about her all day long
she is always busy with lots of people yet sees me more than them
there are many areas of her life she doesnt tell me about
how can I get her to trust me enough to tell me so we can be best friends?
I feel rejected and abandoned when she withdraws and useless to her