Still staying with sister. I just started a new job yesterday and I will be moving out as soon as I am financially able to do so. I love my sister, but not her behavior.

A few weeks ago she was going through her garage where my boxes are. All my boxes were sealed with packing tape. I leave the house and some of my boxes were unsealed up to and including my old journals. She later told me she was putting things away (yeah, right, in my boxes).

I asked her to move some stuff that didn't belong to me out of the room I am staying in. She waits until I am not there and she packs up the stuff (including some of my things). I ask for them back and she gave some of it back, but not all of it. This includes the data stick I had one or 2 pages of my journal and my resume on. Thank the lord I found the thing.

It's like no space is private. This data stick was INSIDE my briefcase and she would have had to gone through my stuff to find it.

Is this a sign of a mentally unbalanced woman or what? I have been respectful of them and their rules, but it's like I don't have a right to privacy around here. I mean, it is their house and all, but to go through my stuff.

I'm good at hiding things but I think from now on, I will have to use those hiding places for stuff that really needs to be kept private.

When I first moved here, I was told my a family member that doesn't live with them and is VERY honest, not to talk on the house phone when they are home if I can help it as someone will pick up the other extension.

All this covert stuff is driving me nuts.

Feedback anyone?