Hi ~ I'm sure you don't want to KEEP living like this. But if you don't do something about it, you WILL. Why not go for couples counseling? It sounds like both of you could use it. Communication is almost nil with the two of you. You should be able to TALK about things and work them out without fighting.
If you don't think he will go to counseling, then I'd get out. No one wants to live like that. The fights will only continue and probably get worse. You CAN make it on your own !!! You're an intelligent person -- don't stay in a relationship that doesn't have any future but heartache.
Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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