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Originally Posted by ledz
Thank you ladies. The more I think about her motives the less likely she has any, except to cover her own insecurities before I notice. Too late honey. I noticed .
The first thing she said after "the turn" in response to my "wtf happened to you" question, was " I'm just worried about all this stuff, I'm a mess, it's not you". So is she trying to save me from the horrible person she really is? Then why become that person and make sure it's done? I don't get that logic. Be as mean and evil as you can so that he will hate your guts and go away quickly? My problem is that I have self esteem. Anyone on the street knows that if you mess with someone like that there's going to be repercussions. Payback should be a ***** for her too. ha ha
PS: Sorry for being so cynical. Thanks for being there people.
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The real problem I have with this lady is that I could not convey my sincerity. She had said early on that she thought I was just out to score and put a notch in my belt. I was honest enough to tell her how few notches there were...none recent or meaningful and I was sincerely looking for a keeper. If I hadn't convinced her of that why did she continue with me and allow me to get very close and then cite the same concern in the end?
This is what kills me. To not be taken at my word is disappointment and then some. Yes, she has issues. I would have been happy to help cure some of them if I had an honest chance...Is it so impossible to prove someone wrong in their thinking that the best solution is to move on?