Is it understandable if it feels like a blow below my belt when someone mentions my mental illness is an argument? For example, someone harranging you about how if you didn't do xy and z, that you wouldn't "have your nervous breakdowns".

It makes me cry when someone does that and I end up feeling worthless. I just don't understand how anyone could even mention that knowing it makes me feel worthless, then they tell me to "get over it" when I cry.

"You should be doing x y and z to fix your problems. You need to meditate. You're lazy. You're stupid. You're the most disorganized person I have ever met. You're out in lala land."

And I feel as though they aren't doing this to help me but just to hurt me.

The person saying these things is my mom.

Gosh I want to cry just thinking about it.