Hi, I have recently become aware that when people make jokes about me I get really offened even though I know its not personal. I cant seem to help it. Obviously, once people see that it offends me they tend to do it more because it provokes a reaction, especially guys that I work with. Some of these jokes are offensive such as talking about peoples mums, but other guys just seem to laugh it off or fire one back. But, it really gets under my skin. Also, if I feel someone criticises me for no real reason it also bothers me and I cant seem to take it.

Im just looking to find the psychological issues behind these sort of reactions?? Is it low self esteem?? Any help would be great. Thanks for reading peeps!!