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Mind you a lot of my friends use to think I was gay
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That just reinforces my comment about having to have every aspect of our sexuality labeled....others try to label us even when the label doesn't fit. If you didn't feel that others were trying to label you, you wouldn't have felt the need for label to define yourself & you could just be what you are & let it naturally be whatever it is WITHOUT having to LABEL YOURSELF.
I have also seen young girls feel pressured into having a boyfriend just to avoid being labeled gay which ends up pressuring sexuality on kids when there should be absolutely NO PRESSURE on anything especially at that young age when SEX shouldn't even have anything to do with relationships. There is all too much pressure put on sexuality & having to label it rather than just being able to be & feel how you feel.