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Hi ~ I have to agree with Willcat -- you need to set boundaries. There is not a THING you can do about his drug usage. The only person who can influence him to stop is HIMSELF. He has to decide that he's had enough. He has to "hit bottom" -- lose enough things so that he'll realize what he's doing to himself. The way it stands right now, he hasn't lost anything. He's still doing well -- so why stop?
If you really care for him, set some boundaries. Tell him that you will NOT put up with his using drugs when he's with you -- and you will NOT see him when he's under the influence. Of course, you must be prepared for him to say "fine, goodbye." He may choose the drug over you.
If you stay with him and put up with his usage, this will only get worse, and he'll continue to use more and more, chasing that "high" he's looking for. Unfortunately, he's never going to find it -- he's looking for the FIRST high he got that was so great -- that's long gone, and doesn't exist anymore.
So you have some difficult decisions to make. I wish you the very best. Take care & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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