Thank you Notz. I emailed my husband and said I hope he was telling the truth about getting this done and how I want peace. He said he is trying to get them ASAP and that I would get peace. For now I'm going to see what these quote "papers" say and I won't sign anything until I'm sure its fair. He may have got a referral by one of his friends lawyers to do this as a favor - he's all for getting things for a low price.

I'm thinking he's smart enough not to want a court battle because he'll look like the worst spouse for taking a second wife and thinking I could live without sex myself and still be happy. Not only is he an adulterer but a polygamist. He has a public image to hold up. He always said he doesn't want to live with the other woman who I don't think is in the picture now, because he still wants everything to go to us in the event of his death.

For now I'm going to wait and see what he has to offer. He always said he doesn't want to ever divorce, so getting him to this point is a big deal. He's the kind of person who's will bite, the moment he feels cornered which is why I'm waiting to see what move he'll make. If its not favorable I will get a lawyer to advise me and tell him I want my own independent person to look it all over.