My son is working his disability in a similar way. I don't think that it is the same as what you are going through with your sister but there does seem to be some overlap/similarity.
Anyway... here to listen if you need to talk/vent whatever...
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There’s been many a crooked path
that has landed me here
Tired, broken and wearing rags
Wild eyed with fear
-Blackmoores Night
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