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Originally Posted by ledz
My X makes the Terminator look like an alter boy. I want some relief. Is there any remedy? Is there anyone with the answer? Is there one single person with the guts to stand up to Family Law in California and say "Your honor, this person is clinically ill and is causing great hardship in the live of others. She has habitually lied to and manipulated this court in order to act out her fantasy."
Where are the doctors? The results of a psychological evaluation given by a licensed psychologist whom we were receiving marriage counseling from revealed;"Elevated levels of dysfunction, Axis 1, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder" followed by in depth descriptions of her tendencies and the results from specific areas of behavior, and much more. All citing dysfunction.
Five years of oppression..financial and personal destruction after giving her the best 20 years of my life. There has to be a solution. I need some help.
It's a long story which I have and will share, but it is critical that I get help soon. I've lost too much already! I've been here on PC since '07. I put my trust in the good that is served here, God bless you all.
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Im not the psych central staff but I can tell you, no one here staff or members can do anythnig for you. we dont tell eachother what to do and how to do it. we listen and say whether we have been in the same situaiton as you are in.
I have never been in this situation but as a crisis center therapist I have clients that have.
some have chosen to get a no fault divorce (basically this is where you go to the clerks office, file the paperwork, pay the fee, place an ad in a newspaper giving notice that they have filed for divorce then on the court date the judge signs the divorce decree)
others that decided not to leave their mentally ill spouses had their spouse involluntarily committed to a mental facility due to their being a danger to their self or others.
others choose to leave their spouses, enter a domestic violence shelter and obtain a protection order so that if the spouse comes near them they can have them arrested.
Some chose to move out on their own and obtain a protection order.
some chose to stay with their mentally ill spouses.
only you can decide what you want to do. only you can decide whether you have had enough and leave or stay.
if this person really is as mentally ill and dangerous as you say then call the cops when they are a danger to yourself and others. and get yourself a restraining order barring the person from coming near you. depending on the household situation she will be removed from the house or you will be removed from the house the day the police serve the restraining order.
in the USA you dont need medical reports, psych reports and all that to get a restraining order. you just need to state you feel you are in danger and why.
