Since in therapy it is helpful to say whatever comes to mind... I had a male friend who told me he used to throw down the cash payment to his male T at the end of the hour as if he were paying a prostitute, he said he wasn't sure where this hostility was coming from (or I blanked it out). Along those lines, I would wonder why one would visit a worker if one did not want to succumb to their manipulations and experience their magic. Surely one can see how constantly shouting out questions and criticisms and directions would spoil the mood and destroy any chance of a positive outcome to the encounter? Speaking metaphorically, of course.
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