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Old Sep 24, 2011, 09:01 AM
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only you can decide the path you choose. conflicts in relationships indicate you are struggling with making a decision. unfortunately we cannot predict or suggest a solution. we can offer support to you or listen however. a wise friend gave me some good advice once: when in doubt, don't.
however, as long as you're in your present relationship it's not fair to go outside of it. a healthy approach, imo, is to decide whether to quit the present one before you move on to the next.
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