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Originally Posted by stopdog
I never said anything about shouting. And I get the manipulation idea from them - read any book about therapy by one of them and they admit they continually manipulate rather than explain and blame the client for any difficulties. I am trying to find one who will explain the reason for the question so I can answer it correctly.
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There isn't a 'correct' answer. This is something my therapist and I have discussed so many times. The desire for there to be a correct answer is something about me and my need to not 'get it wrong'. So I've learned that abut myself and as a result I've learned to deal with the frustration that comes with it. Questions are simply tools to open paths to explore. Questions may seem or be vague, but it is not to put expectations on the response, it is to not influence the exploration.