I like your pics on your site more than the one you have here (blush blush) I didn't see your weight, btw.
PPl of size need to go right ahead and wear bright colors and patterns, just not the tiny ones. I see ppl for who they are inside... when any of us feel good in our clothes, it shows up in our faces and attitudes.
PS Quit asking a man how you look, or taking any comment seriously. Ask your girlfriends instead!