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Originally Posted by unhappyguy
Maybe this is a silly question but I am curious to know. Do you fantasize when you masturbate and, if so, about what?
I am gay but was raised to be an asexual parental caretaker. I try to do without sex but fantasize about men.
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Hello,
That's not a silly question at all.
Oddly enough, the only "sexual" thing I think about is past situations when I've masturbated! I don't get turned on by thinking about sex with a man or woman. Often just the motion of masturbation is enough for me.
I assume you are not "out" with your homosexuality then? There is nothing wrong with having fantasies about men, by the way. You can't be expected to change your sexuality!