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Sep 25, 2011, 03:34 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ Your Mom is an adult, and she should be taking care of these issues herself. You can't get walked on unless you lay down.  I'm sure she realizes that she SHOULD be getting paid back -- it's up to HER to see to it that her friends pay her back -- not you.
Perhaps she is too meek -- if that's the case, she's going to have to learn to stand up for herself - otherwise these things will keep happening.
You can tell her how you feel -- that's she's being taken advantage of, and being used, but tell HER that she has to take care of these things herself.
I know you love & care about your mom and are concerned - but she's got to "grow up." God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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