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Old Sep 25, 2011, 12:18 PM
BadHorsie1216 BadHorsie1216 is offline
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I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now. But we've known each other for about 7 years. We've been friends and have liked each other for years but have just never been in the position to be together, now we are.

We've spent like everyday of the past months together. But recently she's seemed a little frustrated with school, work, and other issues. So she's seemed upset all the time, and when I ask what's wrong she doesn't tell me, so I ask again and she gets frustrated and angry. And whenever she's in a bad mood and I can't cheer her up I think it's my fault. So I question if she's happy and if were ok. And this gets her even more angry.

Now we recently had a talk and she told me that she wants some space and it has nothing to do with us. She told me that she loves me and doesn't play those beat around the bush let you down easy games. She said if she didn't want to be with me she wouldn't be. We both love each other and I want to make things work but me constantly questioning our relationship, her feelings, and everything else is hurting the relationship.

I need help desperately. I'm afraid that if I keep on on this path I'm gonna lose her. Like I have no problem giving her space because I realize that everyone needs their own space but I'm having a problem. When I'm alone I'm constantly worrying if our relationship is ok or if she's gonna up and leave me.

Please anyone who can help me out and shed some light on my situation would be a life saver.