My DBT lady tried to pull the same crap on me, saying oh, you'll never get better with THAT... That what? Making me feel ashamed of "transference", like I don't know I'm ugly. What a hostile b!tch. I later found out she just needed bodies for her DBT research grant. It was a HUGE group, over 15 people each session, it was insane. And very uncomfortable, everybody I think naturally leans towards telling their story!
I think DBT T's see psychodynamic clients, like you, who are being successful, and want to snatch you for THEIR camp to claim us as DBT success stories, when in reality all the real, hard work was done previously. Seriously! Sneaky Petes! Nice try. I'm sorry you suffered this, it really makes you doubt yourself, AND want to kill somebody else, and you would think by now they would know not to eff with us like this! SFB!