I found a few that you might find helpful.
http://www.talktherapybiz.com/psycho...nt-pet-peeves/

I think while is say discussing dissociation I think alot of it applies to everyday people without that issue. The author did it in two part the top one below is part one the next one part two. This kinda covers it in an opposite way by giving the qualities they look for.
http://discussingdissociation.wordpr...client-part-1/

http://discussingdissociation.wordpr...lients-part-2/

Hope this is helpful