After my boyfriend and I of three years has sex I get really depressed and weepy. I feel gross and guilty like I had done something wrong. It was never like this before but we recently had a time period where we fought over sex, and some hurtful things were said about towards each others performances. Not to mention Im heavier then Ive ever been due to having my third baby 10 months ago. I dont know if this will get better and I imagine if it dont our relationship will fall apart quickly. Sex seems more important to me then it does him, or so he claims. I need thoughts and opionons please.