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please know i can't say what you are or are not. but it's worth doing the 30 day abstinence suggestion to see how you do. it's a tool to determine how much your drinking is important to you. if you don't have a problem this exercise will confirm that most times.
as for hubby being your back up...when we rely on someone else to help us maintain a level of sobriety it's not a good sign. you should be able on your own to manage your drinking habits.
not trying to bust you. you have stated viable concerns in your original post. this new reply i feel is your minimizing your relationship to alcohol.
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