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Originally Posted by earthmamma
Sounds like a strong transference you are having. The same way to feel compelled to act that out on rainbows post can helpt you see how she also has a strong urges that she's still blind too. Once you allow yourself to feel your own pain then your reaction will be more natural.
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Actually I had posted on a previous post my insight into Rainbow's posts and why it bothers me, and it had to do with my past and Rainbow's behavioral pattern.
The few people that offer a different perspective are always shot down and disappear. Instead of perhaps seeing those as valid comments, in response to a continuous behavioral pattern.
15+ years of therapy doing the same behavior pattern has not helped because part of healing is willingness to change and take responsibility for actions that are self-sabatoging.
What I am trying to understand is why there is continuous support when the same behaviors are posted over and over. Is that helping or enabling?