I think near everyone feels that way tho when you are left hanging especially with someone you find yourself into. It is disrespectful and blows the self esteem no matter how great it may be.

I'm the same way. If I'm going to be dumped tell me but when I have to break it off with someone else I want to run away and hide. I've used the "we're not quite the right match" along with saying something positive about the dates. Like I enjoyed the company but I just don't see it going anywhere and I wish them luck. This seems to be the standard thing in regards to on-line dating.

Yeah, dating is hard but I'm a sucker and like the little pitter patter my heart gets sometimes.