So i was dating this guy for about a month and 1/2 i've known for like 2 years. He has been in an on and off relationship for 4 years, and while we were dating mentioned his "ex" to me like 5 times. I got the impression he is still hung up on her and just wants to have sex with me. I judge men on their actions, not words. So even though he said he had alot of love for me, I just couldn't bring myself to get closer.

Anyway, I ended it with him in a bad way (via text bombing him with my rage at like 5am). He seemed confused and angry and told me to never text or call him again.

We had previously discussed his ex and his issues of seeming emotionally unavailable. He denied it and said that he's been over her for like 6 months. But I know this is not true. I have sources.

Anyway, I still wish to be with him and kind of regret the manner in which I ended things. In fact, part of me is in love with him. I just wish I could trust him. Do I have a chance of getting back with him? Should I use the no-contact rule? Has anyone else used it and worked?