Calling it a "small LAPSE of judgment" means to me she is still perfect.
And here she is all wrong.
I think it is NOT about her judgment at all. are you still looking for an excuse/reason to leave t? take a break and go back. or see someone else. you do not have to be perfect about this. not only that; it is impossible to make a mistake about this. you have been moving at warp speed compared to anyone else! you totally deserve to see someone else if you want. I mean if not you, then who?!