Can I ask what made you "text bomb" him as you say, palemoss? A person may have every intention of letting go of someone else but still harbor feeling. That does not make them a bad person or a cheater. It takes 2 to tango. It takes a person to date knowing they aren't ready, and another person to ignore the signs or to react poorly to it. Not saying what you should do but no contact is often the only way to re-ingratiate yourself with someone you've recently alienated yourself from during a bad breakup. Live your life and if you should meet up again and he seems accepting, offer an apology or whatever you feel is appropriate and go from there. No quick fixes with this.