I apologize if I sounded like I was presuming or affixing anything onto you that doesn't apply. Didn't mean to imply anything. I was just expanding as I am wont to do. To be frank, IMO, this sounds like hyper-controlling behavior and thought patterns. The way you chose to not directly address my post is very indicative of that. A dismissive, black and white attitude speaks volumes. When you get older you may find life is too short to worry about trivial things like a spotless house or what people think you were going to do. Life brings a desensitization to these types of things, but slowly. Better to start now and refocus the brain toward more positive and productive thoughts.