i get told often times "the world isn't black and white" i know there are grey areas but sometimes there are just too many grey areas.
This is coming up right now due to i got the book my t suggested to get and we'll be working out of for dbt. Well i'm reading and it has two sides. I'm finding most of them i'm like the middle. For example people can't be trusted and on the other side having someone i can trust is important.

Both i feel strong about. It's very very important to have some one to trust. But you can't trust all and i find in the world there are few you can truely trust. I know strive for the trust but the world just isn't that way. I wish we were all ok, safe and free to be one self but That's unreal.
Am i just wrong on this or do others see my dilema?
Ugh i want to succeed but idk, just like this example in the book being self sufficient is important. Being loved and cared for is important. I can't choose one or the other they both are important (well i guess today it is perhaps about equal, a few years ago i would had leaned towards self sufficient) lol idk. I guess i'll find out in a week what t says. Sorry for the ramble just a little confused.