Wow, I am saddened to hear this, I just haven't been reading all the posts lately, I am sorry you haven't heard from me
With the overwhelming life changes in my home, I have been too "bummed", "drained" and busy these days.
I hope this post of yours didn't include me, I try to keep in touch with the boards, but it is much harder now.
You take care now, okay?

((((((((((((((((( yokus ))))))))))))))))))

DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON