Thank you for all the replies. I know what everyone says is right...i just gotta find the strength to take a stand. Lord knows i cannot be battered and abused the way my mother was by my stepfather. I guess its gonna be a time for an ultimatum soon...he either goes for voluntary anger management and puts US first. Or...lose me. But its also the mixed signals all the time that drive me crazy. This afternoon he was weird and moody and distant...next thing loving and caring. Its messing with my mind