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Hi Hyper. I go through the same thing. I not only want to be close to my ex sexually but also together as we were when we met. We were together 10 years. We had a lot of tragedy that pushed us apart so splitting was inevitable. She met someone else and moved on, I was left kinda in a daze for years (and I still am in a daze). I dream of her which really ticks me off. I wake up thinking she is beside me and in the dreams I always ask her that when I wake up will she be there. In the dreams she always says 'yes'; I wake, alone feeling like I'm in hell. I have met other women but they do match her in the way she thought, so I am constantly looking for a replacement. I know that I will never be able to move on till I have found that perfect other again.
It really annoys me that I'm stuck on that merry go round. I do have faith that I will meet another that not only matches her, but surpasses her in many ways. Then I know for sure that I will have moved on.
The only advice I could give you is to keep looking for the perfect replacement, they are out there (the fish in the sea to coin a phrase). Its just a matter of persistence and faith. Now I tell my ex when she turns up in my dreams to go away (not so polite though, cause its causing chaos with my happiness).
Its rather strange that another friend of mine went through the same thing. I was telling him what was going to happen before it happened....funny. He is now though very happy in another relationship.
I hope this helped in any way.
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