It isn't slutty to wear things that draw attention to your assets, especially if you can wear it with confidence.

Whatever you do, don't listen to what other women think makes a woman look sexy. Unless she is a lesbian. They really don't know, any more than I know what makes a man sexy.

When men look at a woman and they are interested in having fun, they look more at her body. When they are ready to settle down for the long term they look at her face more. I wish I could cite my source; it was a recent study. Anyway, are you really ready to settle down?