I think you should be yourself- I know that is probably an old woman saying (im not that old though I dont think ) but I am a bit on the soft side :-P...

I to a point agree with Inedible,- I Do agree if you can wear something that you feel comfortable in but yet you feel beautiful and attractive and/or sexy in too go for it. But if you don't feel comfortable, or if you feel it's degrading, Don't make yourself to be like someone you think men would want... after all don't you want them to want and like you for you?

IDK if that makes sense and IDK if that even relates.